One hard thing I am doing is to not interfere with my daughter’s and grandkids’ lives. I have to totally trust God, the Holy Spirit in Jesus Christ’s name and not stick my hand in. I need to back off. I can say I love them and avoid causing them more pain.
In my mind I feel like they think I don’t care. But my daughter is wise and reminds me often that I don’t know how others think.
I was very undisciplined about this issue. Now I am learning to become responsible–not always, but more than never.