The drama you go through with the friends you love

Sometimes you really have to stay on the side, because there are always two sides to a story. But, why do we always believe our loved ones, and then come out looking like a fool when we find out the whole truth? It’s because we trust them, and when they are in pain, all we feel is their pain; we don’t wanna hear anything else.

The story I’m about to tell you about is a youngin’ that I’m just crazy about, in a son kinda way. Oh man, this youngin’ gets it in. I love him. I claim him, he’s one of mine now.

But, on the other hand, he has mental and anger issues. Man, this baby can get out of hand in a second, and he has a son on the way any day now. This will be his first kid; he’s 27, can you imagine how exciting this is for him?

One day he walked up to me and said, “I’m going home, I can’t take this, she won’t let me be in the labor room when my son is being born.” I tried to calm him down and told him, “Don’t you see: this her whole purpose, to throw off your game?” He left and went home.

Before I knew anything, here comes the police walking with his baby mother. I thought, “Oh Lord, what is up now?” Somebody walked past him and another person, while he was saying some crazy stuff about what he was going to do to her, then went and told her, so she called the police. They say she put a restraining order out on him, but I can’t tell!

People were coming up to me and telling me that he said he would kill her and the baby. As much as I talk to this youngin’, angry or not, he has never said anything like that to me. But, I say I am really one-sided on this thing. But, don’t get me wrong, I love her too. But, in my heart and soul, I think she’s sneaky, manipulative and greedy. I don’t trust her, because one day she’ll be calling for anything and everything that she needs, then the next day she won’t even speak. This boy is in love, and she knows it. I believe she took advantage of his vulnerable situation and used it to her advantage. As I said, this is his first kid.

But, now he has two jobs and is getting ready for his baby because it’s due in any minute — she has already passed the ninth-month stage. And, that’s another thing, it might not even be his son. That would be very disappointing for him. But, that’s what some of these crazy women do. Today I pray that this is his son because I think this will help me from thinking that he’s all alone. This means he has someone who he can depend on loving him, regardless because I see him being a great dad.

Like I always say, stay safe and stay clean.