I let a woman on crack live with me for over 20 years. I was always lied to. She cheated on me and ran the streets all the time. She stole food and other items from the house.
I thought I could change her.
But I’ve since come to believe that you cannot change a person unless they want to be changed. I was always depressed and always worrying about her. She had asthma and seizures, so she used her sickness to make me feel sorry for her.
See, people who don’t want to change their lives won’t until they change their mind and decide they want something different.
Go to God in prayer. Then and only then will you be able to change your way of thinking.